“monogamy isn’t common in nature blah blah no other ape does this and it’s possessive and unnatural blah blah it’s unrealistic to keep a healthy marriage for 2/3rds of your life blah blah”
don’t care didn’t ask plus after i get married we will die in each other’s arms through the strength of our commitment and love
love when people go “but monkeys do this-” do i look like a mfing monkey to you
“this happens in nature-” great! but this is a civilization
monkeys don’t share milkshakes with curly straws on dates or write poetry to each other across thousands of miles. so while they are cool little dudes and dudettes, i will not be taking relationship advice from them.
Polygamy/ polyamourous relationships is just a big ol coping mechanism for getting cucked tbh. Because one person, no matter what situation is gonna be getting the “better end” of the “deal”, there’s gonna be resentment and gaslighting to get someone to accept something they don’t want to etc.
Like what is this. How is this read by anyone as wholesome. This man is convincing himself that his wife isn’t emotionally abusing him and he’s happy with his life.
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