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Yup blame the women instead of the large corporations. Women always take the blame for others actions.
People, including libfems and radfems, just hate mothers. They truly do.
i just feel terrible for her. the eldest child looks about 10-12 and i can only see one pair of twins, so that’s 9 pregnancies at a rate of nearly one a year. that’s so incredibly dangerous and unhealthy, i can only imagine the osteoporosis and incontinence and other issues this poor woman is going to suffer when she’s older. and no doubt the father doesn’t help at all. i suspect the eldest two daughters likely act as additional mothers. i just feel nothing but pity and worry 🙁 i can only hope that perhaps some are adopted, and that her family plays a huge part in care, because caring for 10 children is not feasible for one human being.
i looked into her instagram and blog posts, and it made me further sad. here’s what i found.
she’s finnish, her husband is uruguayan, they live in sweden. they got married when she was 25 and he was 41, but first met when she was 16 and he was 32, and started dating a couple years after that (vomit) his children from his previous marriage are barely younger than her. all the kids are under 12 and she gave birth to all of them, so nearly 1 a year. there is no nanny or housekeeper and she doesn’t take the under 5s to preschool, so she does 100% of the care of all 9 herself (while pregnant!!!) and the only breaks she ever gets are when they go to sleep. not only does she do all the child rearing and housework SHE ALSO WORKS FROM HOME. each pregnancy is also more difficult than the last, which has me seriously concerned for the state of her body, but she’s obsessed with continuously having children.
her blog seems happy, but it really feels like one of those “mommy blogger overcompensating by posting the good parts on social media for people to praise so i feel better about how shitty things get a lot”. her insta is nothing but her kids, she seems to have no identity beyond her children. the strange thing is, there’s seems to be very little religious influence, at least on her instagram. she also at least vaccinates all her kids. i also feel bad for her because she’s been getting hundreds of hate messages a day since her posts went viral. throwing insults and vitriol at her won’t do anything.
also, i feel sorry for the kids that they’re essentially being born for internet fame. she literally calls them her “squad” and all of her posts are begging for comments and likes regarding her kids, what sex her new baby is gonna be, etc. the second she gets pregnant, everything’s on camera. their lives are constantly filmed and uploaded. her online career is based on them. they have no choice, and i doubt she’s saving any money THEY make her for when they grow up.
and her husband is a piece of shit, having sex with her within a month of difficult childbirths (the min for a normal, easy birth is SIX WEEKS, let alone for what she described as the most difficult birth out of the 9). look at the ages. the twins are NINE MONTHS YOUNGER than the older sister. the 7, 6, 5. the youngest and the pregnancy. she never gets a break. i also feel it’s just cruel to the kids, their mother’s love and attention is split between TEN. i can only imagine the immense feminine socialisation going on with the girls 🙁
Why the hell weren’t her parents protecting her from this guy when she was 16?She was being groomed between 16 and 25.
@misgenderer here’s an update to her situation
Again, why are we blaming the woman and not the man who groomed her??
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