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exposing-the-bullshit:

Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.

Stop:

• Yelling at him in front of his friends 
• Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like
• Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you 
• Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him
• Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend
• Forcing him to spend every moment with you 
• Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws
• Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake
• Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want
• Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want
• Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you
• Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes 
• Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love
• Physically attacking him when ever you are mad
• Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to
• Invading his privacy by going through his phone
• Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is

If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy. 

Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.

Girls: if you find your self doing anything on this list to your boyfriend you need to knock it off because you are being abusive.