Help me settle a debate with @sparksfade: does Barbie top or bottom Ken? Because she’s adamant that Barbie is a top.
Why are you two even having this discussion?
Barbie and Ken take turns because they are open to new ideas and ways to have fun and love one another.
So my experience with Barbie is the various movies I have seen with my daughters and when I was a little girl. Throughout my life Barbie has been nothing more than a kind, generous, and truly good-spirited woman who also knows when to stand up for herself and others. This would naturally play out in relationships, both platonic and romantic, as she would undoubtedly be loving to her own circle of friends and family the way she would to complete strangers. Whatever flaws she has, Barbie eventually learns to overcome them with the power of self-respect, friendship, and selflessness – and certainly she uses the same to help others better themselves. Ken in turn is always supportive, fun, and gentlemanly to Barbie and her friends. Source: the Barbie movies on Netflix.
In an intimate relationship, she and Ken practice a healthy amount of respect and authentic love, where they want the other to feel good/loved and are eager to accept the love from the other. This results in a bedroom scenario where they are thoughtful and considerate of one another’s needs, and treat love making as an act to consummate their love through sexual desire and tender affections – resulting in a dynamic that is neither dom/sub nor top/bottom, but one that doesn’t equate any kind of power structure at all.
Neither Barbie nor Ken are top or bottom. They don’t even have that in their vocabulary, because they don’t see being on top or bottom as a reflection of their relationship as a whole.
This was genuinely so touching, I hope this is one of the last things I see on this hellsite when it finally DOES die.
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