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womenagainstwomyn:

bl-ossomed:

• unreasonably jealous
• humiliates you and embarrasses you
• criticizes you 
•  sudden mood swings
• always wants to be in control
• guilt trips you when you say no
• makes everything your fault
• wants to know where you are every minute of the day
• threatening to kill themselves if you leave them

feel free to add more.

just wanted to make a post about this because a lot of people go through this every day and aren’t aware

All this and

– blames uncontrollable things (like miscarriages) on you

– will have a mental breakdown if you talk to them about their shortcomings

– lies (about an) or fakes an illness in order to “evaluate” you

– does not let you leave anywhere without them

– goes through your personal belongings for anything “suspicious”

– does not let you have any personal sexual items (and/or will trash/destroy the ones you have)

– literally any (wo)man is probably someone you’re sleeping with (sometimes including family)

For the abused.