I miscarried my baby at 12 weeks, and I miss them so dearly.
I knew that baby with all that I am, and God took them away from me.
I know that it is normal for a child to become angry with their Father, but it’s so hard to shake.
Pray for me, please, or comfort me. Anything.
God Bless you all.
I am so sorry for your loss sister. I don’t know why the Lord called your child home so early, but I pray that whatever the reason will make you stronger and closer to Him instead of the opposite. May He give you comfort and healing in this time of mourning. Go bless you and your family. <3
The challenge there is that both of those procedures carry some significant risks, especially the hysterectomy, and some doctors are hesitant to do tubal ligations on young women.
But I do think people should take responsibility for not getting pregnant if pregnancy is such a horrifying thing to them.
The reality is that we need better education on pregnancy and health, because the vast majority of women can safely carry to term with proper care and support. The risks are played way up, and the fear doesn’t help anyone.
Most importantly, we need OBs that value life and are willing to explore various options to help a mother safely carry, rather than pushing abortion at the first sign of a complication.
Oh I know there’s a risk either way. I’m mostly referring to those who are borderline rabid for abortions, to the point of sickness. The ones who unironically think the worse thing that can happen to a woman is to have a child, even if it’s directly caused by her actions and choices. If they have to have one surgery vs possibly multiple other ones (if they can be called those, I’m genuinely not sure) then I imagine it’d be a “safer” option to take the one that removes the possibility of pregnancy altogether. Then they can have as much unprotected sex as they want with truly no repercussions (pregnancy). You think more of them would do that instead, especially how some actively hate children and babies. Plus, no menstrual cycle which should be heaven from a rose-tinted glasses standpoint. Because let’s face it, many (not all. NOT. ALL.) of these abortion endorsers only want sex without consequences and abortions grant them that.
Might as well make a choice that grants it to you permanently and avoid the mess entirely.
aight y’know what FINE. I’m gonna make the damn post.
since roe got overturned y’all motherfuckers have done nothing but screech about “WELL WHAT IF YOU WERE RAPED WHAT THEN” & other equally shitty scenarios.
I was raped, and I got an abortion. I am part of that 1% of cases y’all love to use to prop up your bullshit arguments.
I did it without anesthesia. I drove myself home. I was numb for probably another two years after. when it finally did hit me, I was the most suicidal I had ever been and I stayed that way until probably last year. all total it’s been eight years since it happened.
the clinic I went to didn’t offer me help. they didn’t give me options. they didn’t have a post-op checkup. no one gave a shit. no one stopped my trafficker, no one found out, even my closest family didn’t even know until I finally escaped. it was just me, alone, throwing up in a trash can and sitting in post op until the dizziness went away enough for me to drive.
the fact that it was so easy for me to get an abortion by myself (even in a red state, no questions asked) made it easier for my trafficker to slide under the radar. because no one asked questions about why I wanted to end my pregnancy, he got away with what he had done. because no one cared enough to step in and stop me, he went on to abuse me for almost another two years. if someone had just given a shit, maybe I would have escaped that much earlier. maybe he would have faced more severe consequences. maybe I wouldn’t be so fucked up.
don’t you fuckers ever pretend you give a shit about people like me. if you did, you would have been supporting crisis centers, pro-life pregnancy centers, and places that actually care about the situations that women are in when they deal with unexpected or traumatic pregnancies. you would be encouraging pregnant women and telling them that they ARE strong enough, they ARE brave enough, that they are loved and they will be okay and supported and that having a kid will not kill their career or end their school life. you would be telling them that a disabled child, an adopted child, an unexpected child is not unworthy of life itself just because that life will be difficult.
on that note, fuck you, life will ALWAYS be difficult. but you can make it an enjoyable fight, or a miserable truce. you can spit the blood out of your mouth and stick a roll of dimes in your hand and hit back harder or you can lay down and let shit curbstomp you and swallow your own broken teeth. the difference is in how you step outside of yourself and into the lives of the people around you. the difference is in how you love, and if you actually love people, you will never advocate for their death.
stop using situations like mine to excuse your own cognitive dissonance. I’m sick of y’all’s shit.
A lot of the notes are just awful. DEAD DOVE. DON’T EAT.
They go to show how rabidly defensive pro-aborts can be for their sacred cow. This person gave a cutting testimony about her experience and regret and all some of them can think about is talking down to her and twisting her words around. One of them even claims it’s made up because God forbid someone regrets their decision.
What I love about the original post was how she made it clear that the center itself did not provide more support and the process let her abuser get off scot-free. This mirrors many accounts of girls and women who were abused. Many of the pro-choice/aborts do see abortion as this “miraculous cure” instead of a band-aid solution using duct tape. All the abortion does is erase evidence/responsibility for the guys and adds more weight on an already traumatized person while murdering another.
I hope you’re doing better OP and have the help now that you should’ve got back then. God bless. <3
I’m slowly working my way through all the replies to the original post (yes all of them. I have not known peace since I made it lmao) and yeah quite literally every vitriolic response has been from pro-aborts. I started seeing how many responses it took for the inevitable “I don’t care if it’s a living human being, I’ll still kill it” line. so far the empathy to death cult speedrun record is 3, & there’s one I’m not even counting because they came right out with it from the jump.
this shit matters to me. I’ll keep responding as long as I have the time (which isn’t a lot, but I do what I can). thanks so much for your kind words ❤️✌🏻
aight y’know what FINE. I’m gonna make the damn post.
since roe got overturned y’all motherfuckers have done nothing but screech about “WELL WHAT IF YOU WERE RAPED WHAT THEN” & other equally shitty scenarios.
I was raped, and I got an abortion. I am part of that 1% of cases y’all love to use to prop up your bullshit arguments.
I did it without anesthesia. I drove myself home. I was numb for probably another two years after. when it finally did hit me, I was the most suicidal I had ever been and I stayed that way until probably last year. all total it’s been eight years since it happened.
the clinic I went to didn’t offer me help. they didn’t give me options. they didn’t have a post-op checkup. no one gave a shit. no one stopped my trafficker, no one found out, even my closest family didn’t even know until I finally escaped. it was just me, alone, throwing up in a trash can and sitting in post op until the dizziness went away enough for me to drive.
the fact that it was so easy for me to get an abortion by myself (even in a red state, no questions asked) made it easier for my trafficker to slide under the radar. because no one asked questions about why I wanted to end my pregnancy, he got away with what he had done. because no one cared enough to step in and stop me, he went on to abuse me for almost another two years. if someone had just given a shit, maybe I would have escaped that much earlier. maybe he would have faced more severe consequences. maybe I wouldn’t be so fucked up.
don’t you fuckers ever pretend you give a shit about people like me. if you did, you would have been supporting crisis centers, pro-life pregnancy centers, and places that actually care about the situations that women are in when they deal with unexpected or traumatic pregnancies. you would be encouraging pregnant women and telling them that they ARE strong enough, they ARE brave enough, that they are loved and they will be okay and supported and that having a kid will not kill their career or end their school life. you would be telling them that a disabled child, an adopted child, an unexpected child is not unworthy of life itself just because that life will be difficult.
on that note, fuck you, life will ALWAYS be difficult. but you can make it an enjoyable fight, or a miserable truce. you can spit the blood out of your mouth and stick a roll of dimes in your hand and hit back harder or you can lay down and let shit curbstomp you and swallow your own broken teeth. the difference is in how you step outside of yourself and into the lives of the people around you. the difference is in how you love, and if you actually love people, you will never advocate for their death.
stop using situations like mine to excuse your own cognitive dissonance. I’m sick of y’all’s shit.
A lot of the notes are just awful. DEAD DOVE. DON’T EAT.
They go to show how rabidly defensive pro-aborts can be for their sacred cow. This person gave a cutting testimony about her experience and regret and all some of them can think about is talking down to her and twisting her words around. One of them even claims it’s made up because God forbid someone regrets their decision.
What I love about the original post was how she made it clear that the center itself did not provide more support and the process let her abuser get off scot-free. This mirrors many accounts of girls and women who were abused. Many of the pro-choice/aborts do see abortion as this “miraculous cure” instead of a band-aid solution using duct tape. All the abortion does is erase evidence/responsibility for the guys and adds more weight on an already traumatized person while murdering another.
I hope you’re doing better OP and have the help now that you should’ve got back then. God bless. <3
Oh no how dare people advocate that innocent preborn children shouldn’t be dismembered in the womb.
Must go firebomb and graffiti their office, because we believe in freedom…or something…
Then they’ll turn around and pretend they’re advocates for human rights and well-being and ish like they didn’t just infringe on both. But since their opponents are on the “wrong” side, it’s magically okay to harass and wish death upon them because they’re somehow doing the same thing by not advocating for baby deaths. Cue the same, old, tired, BS argument of putting fetuses over mothers’ lives and “forcing” them to carry to term because we dare to say murdering the unborn is unacceptable…even when alternatives and support are given.
Because humans can only care about one group at a time…/s
Hello friend, I’m in a bit of a bad situation right now and would really appreciate some assistance. You can definitely help without spending any money, so please take a minute to read this post!
What’s going on is that I am expecting a baby in August. His name is Finn and he’s adorable. Here’s a picture:
Obviously that’s an ultrasound, since he won’t be born for 2-3 more months, so you can’t really see his face or anything. Trust me, though, he’s adorable. His dad, unfortunately, got on some heavy drugs and took off when I was about four months pregnant and since he’s now a homeless drug addict who has disappeared into the great beyond, he is useless to do anything to help with this baby.
Which leaves me a single mother. I currently live with two roommates which keeps the cost of living affordable, but they need to move in August and I’m unable to come with them. Therefore I need to get a new apartment by August, which you may recall is the month that my precious baby child is due. Obviously, I need to be moved and have my place set up BEFORE Finn makes his grand entrance into the world, which means I’m pretty limited on time.
In case that wasn’t all fun enough, I’m a waitress. This is especially bad because since it’s a physical job that requires me to be on my feet for my entire shifts, there are only so many hours I can work at seven months pregnant. Plus, I will be medically obligated to go on maternity leave after Finn is born so there will be an entire month that I am physically unable to work. At the same time that I will be moving into my new apartment and paying more for rent.
My saving grace is that I write short comedy stories which are free to read BUT I do take donations on the site where I post them. I need to supplement my income with those donations in order to survive, especially in my current situation. The only problem is that my stories and website are still mostly undiscovered and lack of readers/views = lack of donations.
So please check out my stories and donate if you can, or signal boost and encourage others to do the same. Even if you aren’t personally able to spare anything (and I understand that money’s tight for almost everyone) just visiting the website or spreading the word would help immensely in getting me closer to making enough on donations to afford the basic costs of living, at least up until I’m able to return to a normal number of working hours.
If you wouldn’t mind helping out, it would really mean a lot to me (and my baby son, once he’s old enough to understand the concept of gratitude.)
LINKS Stories Writing Blog Facebook Donate (this link keeps breaking – the e-mail used to send a donation is jestersathenaeum@gmail.com)
Guys PLEASE signal boost this. I managed to move into my permanent apartment but between the cost of that and my parents suddenly demanding $600 out of spite, I have almost no savings left. I have to go on maternity leave in less than a month and with the number of hours I’m able to work in this condition I’m averaging about $100 a week. I can’t save up almost anything at that rate and there’s going to be 1-2 months where site donations are the ONLY form of income I’ll have to support myself and Finn. If you have any possible way to help spread the word and bring attention to this site, we REALLY need your help.
Continuing to spread this as much as I can while there’s still time, cause Finn’s due on August 18.
Hello friend, I’m in a bit of a bad situation right now and would really appreciate some assistance. You can definitely help without spending any money, so please take a minute to read this post!
What’s going on is that I am expecting a baby in August. His name is Finn and he’s adorable. Here’s a picture:
Obviously that’s an ultrasound, since he won’t be born for 2-3 more months, so you can’t really see his face or anything. Trust me, though, he’s adorable. His dad, unfortunately, got on some heavy drugs and took off when I was about four months pregnant and since he’s now a homeless drug addict who has disappeared into the great beyond, he is useless to do anything to help with this baby.
Which leaves me a single mother. I currently live with two roommates which keeps the cost of living affordable, but they need to move in August and I’m unable to come with them. Therefore I need to get a new apartment by August, which you may recall is the month that my precious baby child is due. Obviously, I need to be moved and have my place set up BEFORE Finn makes his grand entrance into the world, which means I’m pretty limited on time.
In case that wasn’t all fun enough, I’m a waitress. This is especially bad because since it’s a physical job that requires me to be on my feet for my entire shifts, there are only so many hours I can work at seven months pregnant. Plus, I will be medically obligated to go on maternity leave after Finn is born so there will be an entire month that I am physically unable to work. At the same time that I will be moving into my new apartment and paying more for rent.
My saving grace is that I write short comedy stories which are free to read BUT I do take donations on the site where I post them. I need to supplement my income with those donations in order to survive, especially in my current situation. The only problem is that my stories and website are still mostly undiscovered and lack of readers/views = lack of donations.
So please check out my stories and donate if you can, or signal boost and encourage others to do the same. Even if you aren’t personally able to spare anything (and I understand that money’s tight for almost everyone) just visiting the website or spreading the word would help immensely in getting me closer to making enough on donations to afford the basic costs of living, at least up until I’m able to return to a normal number of working hours.
If you wouldn’t mind helping out, it would really mean a lot to me (and my baby son, once he’s old enough to understand the concept of gratitude.)
LINKS Stories Writing Blog Facebook Donate (this link keeps breaking – the e-mail used to send a donation is jestersathenaeum@gmail.com)
Guys PLEASE signal boost this. I managed to move into my permanent apartment but between the cost of that and my parents suddenly demanding $600 out of spite, I have almost no savings left. I have to go on maternity leave in less than a month and with the number of hours I’m able to work in this condition I’m averaging about $100 a week. I can’t save up almost anything at that rate and there’s going to be 1-2 months where site donations are the ONLY form of income I’ll have to support myself and Finn. If you have any possible way to help spread the word and bring attention to this site, we REALLY need your help.
Continuing to spread this as much as I can while there’s still time, cause Finn’s due on August 18.
Hey guys, quite a while back I tried to save up some money for my aunt who was hospitalized after suffering a small stroke. Unfortunately I couldn’t raise up enough money in time before my aunt got released. But now my aunt is back in the hospital again now that she’s just suffered another stroke. I hope to make up for my first attempt and meet my goal this time. Please spread this around you guys and donate if you can! http://www.gofundme.com/wn4m89ss
Hey everyone! I know I just posted asking for financial support for myself, but this is extremely important.
